We assume that both sexes are equally good or bad. On both sides there are great people and terrible ones and only little has to do with gender. In cases where one gender sticks out in an excessively negative way, it is often due to situational reasons, where the opposite gender would act in the same way in the same situation. The remaining differences are not sufficient to pillory one of the sexes. For this reason, we reject any agitation against the opposite sex! This applies to both sides.
We assume that both sexes are equally in search of romantic happiness, whatever that may look like in the individual case. Our ambition is therefore to provide both genders with the widest possible choice and we believe that transformation to the best version of oneself is a central part of this. However, while society places great emphasis on the development of inner values (which we applaud), external factors such as appearance, physique and status fall short. What looks superficial at first glance is actually the result of years of hard discipline, willpower, perseverance, and many other positive qualities, and thus a valid reason for romantic interest even beyond aesthetic preferences.
We further believe that aesthetic preferences have the legitimacy to be a valid reason for romantic interest and that it is nobody’s right to deny this to another person. If you want to place a low value on appearance in your own dating preferences, don’t force yourself. However, we see a social bias against people who are looking for a partner who they like a lot on the outside. In many cases, this has resulted in a compulsion to keep one’s true preferences a secret so as not to become a victim of social stigma. As a result, many people of the opposite sex are given a completely false impression, so they “optimize” themselves past the market. For this reason, we see it as one of our tasks to break down these social stigmas and to educate about what increases one’s own market value.
We are convinced that an attractive physical appearance can have a significant positive impact on one’s well-being. For decades, studies have repeatedly shown how good-looking people receive better deals and reactions under the same conditions than those who are less good-looking. Nowhere is this more true than in the dating market. An unfulfilling love life, or even the absence of it for years, has been proven to have drastic effects on the psyche and in many cases results in frustration, depression, and projected hatred for the opposite sex. To prevent or cure this, we motivate everyone to get the most out of themselves and offer ways and solutions to that end.
The Black Pill philosophy has been accused by media and representatives of other dating philosophies of producing frustrated incels, some of whom even snap. They were right about that. But those times are over now. It’s easy for a journalist to dwell on the words and actions of a frustrated young person without even a sentence analyzing the causes, let alone trying to help him. It is the mindset of the rich snob who is disgusted by the beggars on the street. The Black Pill philosophy was still young and its first steps clueless. But now it has evolved and set out to get the beggars off the streets and the incels onto the dating markets, to give the men dream girls and the women dream men. This is the reformed Black Pill! And it’s going to change the dating reality for everyone….
